Wednesday, November 26, 2008

精神科=神经病?!

第一次认真接触精神病患,感觉有点兴奋、又有点害怕。
可能一直以来很希望可以成为心理医生,所以对它的期待也与其他的posting不同。

其实,他们大多数都很镇定,只是需要人的关心。
“如果人们愿意多付出一点时间给他们,我想他们应该会不一样。”
一位十六岁的少女,却能成熟的告诉我精神衰弱的他,是这么想的。
很难想象这么小的他,就在他出生时,已经注定要接受悲剧。
看到他在纸上写着,我想要有一个家,一个完整的家。
很多父母为一己之私,罔顾小孩一生的幸福,
结果,社会的问题越来越严重。

很多医学生不把精神科放在眼里,
看到病人还在后面说那些神经病,
看不起他们。
仿佛那些内、外科的病人才是病人。
很多人,甚至是很多医生也看不起心理医生,
认为他们什么都不懂,
只是一群看神经病的家伙,救不到人。
所以都矢志要成为心脏外科、脑科等,
又能出名、又能赚钱。
但原来大马第一宗艾滋病是被心理医生发现的,
可见,只有真正了解病人,让他们告诉你他们的心,
才能够医好他们。

如果没有真正医好病人的心,
就算可以给很多药,动很多次手术,
他们还是打消不了轻生念头。
所以,不要看不起精神科/心理医生,
因为他们并不是不会医治其他的病,
只是这些病人真的很需要他们。

11 comments:

Anonymous said...

在精神科的日子使我对它产生了又爱又恨。
爱乃很喜欢用言语和沟通去了解一个病人。
恨乃浪费了一半posting的时间去适应那环境。
毕竟,社会对精神病患者的social stigma还是很深。。
自己之前也一样,深感惭愧!

Anonymous said...

很多医学生不把精神科放在眼里,
看到病人还在后面说那些神经病,
看不起他们。

r u sure?

Anonymous said...

mr. bread, 我不懂你在质疑什么。不过,至少我看到的是这样。虽然我不是很喜欢他们这样称呼病人,不过嘴巴在他们脸上,我也管不着。

Anonymous said...

oic,
prove that the PPD is a failure.

Anonymous said...

well, if have to say so, means moral education from kindergarten is also a failure. means our ministry of education does not have to implement moral education or religious education. It's just a theory. people are still people. I guess u will still do wrong thing even though u were taught not to do so. does that means Moral education or even your parental education is a failure? U judge yourself since u like to judge

Anonymous said...

anonymous,i strongly agreed with your view. Bravo~

mr. bread, i think you are just to immature in your thinking to make such a statement and remember, you are not even qualify to judge whether PPD is a failure, or not.

PPD is just a module introduced to awake all those 'book worms' who think everything can only be learnt from books. Where they not even realized that soft skills carry a relatively heavier portion in the profession.

So sad that you blame the (so far) 4 years training in PPD but you've forgotten that a person personality and behavior are molded since his upbringing.

Rome is not built in a day. Same concept applies to a person character. If he/she is behaving like sh*t previously, you can't expect him/her to smell fragrant the next minute rite?

Sorry to say that you still need to stay in the oven, Mr Bread. Because you're still uncooked!

Regards,
Don't blame PPD for your sh*tty behaviour

Anonymous said...

huh? what an aggressive attack on me.

i have a 'shitty' behaviour just because i said one sentence, 'PPD is a failure'?

I think u got a whole lot of shit in ur mouth for calling others as shitty.

N oo ya, u dont even have the gut to use the proper word S.H.I.T. If u dont dare, dont use.

since u claim that moral upbringing is so solid and unbreakable despite the 5 years of PPD training, then, what's the point of implementing PPD? isnt it a failure?

or most probably, it's only a failure for guys like you...whose moral is greatly eroded.

If PPD is just to awake, as u claimed, the 'sleeper', but in the end, they dont apply it, then, isnt it a failure?

a reminder, soft skills DO include showing empathy to patient. If those students keep labelling their student as crazy, isn't PPD a failure?

well, as i said, it is a failure because of your eroding moral foundation.

yea, maybe i'm uncooked, i'm still in the process of becoming better, but u 're truly OVERcooked, proud and thinking that u r superior than others.

to anonymous, yes , u r right, their parental education is a failure in term of calling patient as 'crazy', well, that's why the social stigma exists. I don't deny that they might be good in other aspect.

Edwin T said...

大家本是同根生,相煎何太急?

jalapeno said...

The objective of the PPD is good, but the system is a failure.

That's my two cents.

Anonymous said...

看来这里局面一发不可收拾。 我想大家都要好好检讨一下。不管在什么岗位,都应该常常提醒自己,要谦卑。恶意批评不是值得学习的事。Mr. Breadman, u might be correct at some point, but ppd had thought us to give constructive comment. So, hope that u can learn from that also even if u might not learning ppd. the same goes to the mr who mentioned unhealthy words. 不管怎样,大家都希望成为能帮助人的医生,都有可取之处。当然,也希望同事们可以实践PPD所学的,别让它只是纸上谈兵。
PS:在精神科, 一位教授说不管情况多糟,都应该看到他们的优点。所以,大家继续学习放大优点,用望远镜看人的缺点。

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